Loving Looks

I thought this article which I found on babycenter.com was quite interesting. It outlines the ways children show how they love their parents through different stages.

My heart absolutely melts when baby Mon-Chi-Chi looks into my eyes. It usually happens when we're lying down face to face in bed. She'll stare right into my eyes with her big browns and hold that gaze for 5-10 minutes. It's the sweetest experience. It really is like she is trying to absorb every detail of my eyes and my face.

I'm glad I came across this article today because just yesterday I was wondering does my baby love me? With work and the day to day grind of living I haven't been able to spend as much time with her as I did during my maternity leave. Sometimes I wonder if she is happy to see me, or whether she is feeling bonded or disconnected.

"1. Your newborn stares into your eyes — he's actually working hard to memorize your face. He doesn't understand anything else about the world, but he knows you're important.
2. Your baby thinks about you even when you're not around. Between 8 and 12 months old, he'll start to scrunch his face and look around when you leave the room — and he'll smile when you return.
3. Your toddler throws wicked tantrums. Nope, those screaming fits don't mean he's stopped loving you. He wouldn't be so hurt and angry if he didn't trust you so deeply.
4. Your toddler runs to you for comfort when he falls down or feels sad. Kids this age may not truly understand the meaning of "I love you," but their actions speak louder than words.
5. Your preschooler gives you a flower picked from the garden, a finger-painted heart, a sparkly rock, or another gift.
6. Your preschooler wants your approval. He'll start to be more cooperative around the house, and he'll look for chances to impress. "Look at me!" will become a catchphrase.
7. Your grade-schooler trusts you with secrets, like his first crush or his most embarrassing moment. You're his confidante, even if he shies away from your hugs in public."

from babycenter.com